Giving & Getting – A volunteer’s reward
MARQUETTE — The holiday season seems to inspire many people to lift up their neighbors. We are surrounded in our communities with people volunteering. Donations are made to food banks; Giving trees appear in churches and businesses to adopt a child or family.
The calls go out for winter clothing exchanges with the hope that no one goes without a warm hat and gloves. And don’t miss the concerts and theatre productions performed by your neighbors set on lifting up your spirits.
It is the strong sense of community amplified during the holidays that brings people together. There are more smiles exchanged, sidewalks shoveled, and frequent waves of the hand.
My wish? That all of this goodwill extends throughout the year.
There is a phrase that is frequently tossed around regarding engaging volunteers. It is highlighted by three words: Time, talent and treasure. Do you have the ability to give any of those things?
At Little Brothers – Friends of the Elderly, individuals, businesses and groups contributing in those three ways, absolutely drives our mission. That mission is to reduce isolation and loneliness for our elderly neighbors all year long.
We don’t need a research degree to know the detrimental effects on our physical and mental health related to diminishing social connections. As we age, the prevalence of diminishing social connections increases.
Research does indicate that the physical health consequences of poor or insufficient connection include a 29% increased risk of heart disease, a 32% increased risk of stroke and a 50% increased risk of developing dementia for older adults. Say no more I say. Let’s get the time, talent, treasure thing going.
I think time is one of those priceless gifts. Could you take the time to call an elderly neighbor for a friendly conversation? How about sending a note card with a cheerful sentiment? Would you offer to visit and chat over a cup of coffee or tea?
Some talents are hidden, they’re not anything that gets boosted about. At LBFE we would love to have your pie and cookie baker talents compliment our holiday meals and activities. Are you comfortable clearing snow? Come on over.
Treasure is a gift that has no boundaries. We see this in two ways as a financial donation and an in-kind contribution. Financial donations put the fuel in our vehicles so a volunteer can transport folks from there to here. In-kind refers to the gift of goods or services.
Things we need but don’t have to buy such as menu items.
Mr. Rodgers of Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood preschool television series fame is noted for this statement to young children: In times of crisis, in difficult situations, “Look for the helpers.”
That is exactly who we are looking for at LBFE and throughout the community. It takes many hands.
When people give of their Time, Talent, and Treasure they are “getting” as well as “giving.” At LBFE we may have coined the phrase as a “volunteer’s reward.” A feeling of making a positive difference in others’ lives comes right back and fills the volunteer’s empty spaces.
If elderly folks hold a special place in your heart, contact LBFE and throughout the year we will make volunteer opportunity connections for you.
Reducing the negative impact of social isolation for our elderly neighbors is a volunteer’s reward. It is what you get for giving. Thank you.
EDITOR’S NOTE: Leslie Bek is program panager, LBFE Upper Michigan chapter in Marquette County. Contact leslie.bek@littlebrothers.org; 906-273-2575. LBFE Baraga, Houghton, Keweenaw, Ontonagon Counties Hancock Administration office 906-482-6944. lbfemichigan.org.